When should my child first see a dentist?

The recommendation surprises most parents: by their first birthday, or within six months of the first tooth appearing — whichever comes first.

That feels early. Most people picture a dental visit as something that starts around school age. But the point of the first visit is not to treat anything. It is to catch problems while they are still small, and to make the dentist’s office an ordinary place rather than a frightening one.

Why So Early?

Tooth decay can start as soon as there are teeth. Early childhood caries is one of the most common chronic conditions in young children, and it moves faster through baby teeth because their enamel is thinner.

Baby teeth matter more than people think. They hold space for the permanent teeth coming in behind them. A baby tooth lost early to decay lets the neighbouring teeth drift into the gap, and crowding follows — which is how a preventable cavity at three turns into orthodontic treatment at twelve.

Habits are easier to change early. Bottle feeding at bedtime, prolonged thumb-sucking, and pacifier use past the toddler years all affect how the jaw and bite develop. Spotting these at one is far easier than correcting the consequences at seven.

And the visit itself sets the tone. A child whose first appointment involves a friendly look and a ride in the chair grows up thinking of it as routine. A child whose first appointment happens because something already hurts learns something quite different.

What Actually Happens at the First Visit

Not much, deliberately. It takes about 30 minutes.

For a very young child, we often do a knee-to-knee exam — the child sits facing you on your lap and lies back into ours. It keeps them looking at a parent the whole time.

We count the teeth, check how they are coming in, look at the gums and bite, and check for early decay. Often there is a gentle cleaning and a fluoride varnish. There are usually no X-rays at this age unless there is a specific reason.

Then we talk to you: brushing technique for the age, fluoride, bottle and cup habits, what teething looks like, and — the question every parent asks — what to do when a tooth gets knocked out on the playground.

Making It Go Well

Book a morning slot. Tired toddlers do not cooperate, and afternoons are when they run out.

Keep your own language neutral. Avoid “it won’t hurt” and “don’t be scared” — children hear the words hurt and scared, not the don’t. “The dentist is going to count your teeth” works better.

Read a book about visiting the dentist beforehand. It genuinely helps.

Do not promise a treat for being brave. It frames the visit as an ordeal to be survived.

Bring your own calm. If you are anxious about dentists yourself, children read that immediately. Tell us — we would far rather know.

After the First Visit

Every six months, same as adults. Those visits get quicker and more routine, and by the time X-rays and sealants come into the picture your child already knows the room and the people.

Around age seven we start looking at how the bite and jaws are developing. That is not about putting a seven-year-old in braces — it is about spotting problems while the jaw is still growing and can be guided, which often shortens or simplifies later treatment.

Frequently Asked Questions

My child has no teeth yet. Do we still come?

Wait for the first tooth, then book within six months. You can start wiping the gums with a damp cloth before then.

What if my child cries the whole time?

Some do. It is a completely normal reaction to a new place, and it does not mean the visit failed — we can still examine a crying child, and the next visit is almost always easier.

Do baby teeth with cavities really need filling? They fall out anyway.

Usually yes. An untreated cavity can reach the nerve and cause infection and genuine pain, and losing the tooth early causes the spacing problems described above. Some late baby teeth are not lost until age twelve.

Do you see children as well as adults?

Yes. We provide pediatric dentistry alongside general and cosmetic care, so families can be seen in one place rather than split across two practices.

What does the first visit cost?

A new-patient exam and cleaning is usually covered in full by PPO plans. Without insurance we will give you the cost before the appointment — see insurance and financing.

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